Even the best marriages can have its downs. It’s better to keep an eye out for such for such troubles, because it would help you take corrective measures in saving your relationship. With that being said, here are 5 signs that your marriage is on the rocks. Make sure you take this article seriously, if you want to salvage what’s left of your marriage.
Conversations between the couple reduce:
A healthy marriage is based on good conversations with your partner. It’s not necessary that every conversation should be romantic. You could ask your loved one how their day at work was. If he/she has nothing to talk about except for household chores or is the kid’s lunch ready, then my friend, your marriage is certainly going to hit rock bottom. If you know this is happening, ensure you try to better the situation before it’s too late.
In every marriage, there is always a little bickering, even amongst the most lovey dovey couples. If you come across such a couple that has never bickered, then something is definitely abnormal about them. However, if you realize your partner bickers with you on small mistakes that you make, then it’s trouble. A piece of advice, try to calm the situation down as much as you can. Don’t reply with a rude comment, it might just escalate the matter.
No mood to have sex:
Sex is an important factor that binds you and your loved one, doesn’t it with all? If you realize that your partner’s enthusiasm for sex or any intimacy reduces, it’s time for you to up your game. By that I don’t mean try out a new sex position, you perv. Try and resolve the situation before your sex life goes completely down the drain.
Secrets between your partners:
It’s not healthy to keep secrets between each other that ruin the entire relationship, because it creates doubt in your loved one’s mind. The trust factor in the relationship will go for a toss. Just be careful, she could also be having an extramarital affair, not that I’m trying to scare you, but I’m just putting it out there. Try to make her confide in you, so that she starts sharing her most personal details in her life. That is the only way you can save your marriage.
No more romantic outings:
Sometimes due to hectic work schedules and looking after the kids, most couples would not want take time off their busy schedules for a romantic outing. If you feel your loved one does not seem to be willing to go for something as little as a movie date, that itself is a signal that your relationship is in trouble.
Always ensure you and your partner keep the relationship going strong. There will be ups and downs in every relationship. It depends on how you choose to work around those problems.