9 Basic Steps To Make A Girl Fall For You
Think you have met the girl of your dreams? And it is absolutely killing you that she won't give you a second glance? Well, that is because you aren't doing the right things that will make her notice you. If you want to win your lady love, here are some ideas that will make any girl fall for you.
Don't Be A Creep
I know that you absolutely adore her, but following her around everywhere and trying to eavesdrop on all her conversations will just make you look like a creep. And truth be told, I haven't met a single woman who would willingly want to date a creep. Keeping a certain air of mystery around you on the other hand, will most definitely pull her towards you.
Be Confident And Groomed
Swag is good and all that, but swag will only get you a girl, not a woman. Swap swag for style and be well groomed at all times. Disheveled hair and dirty clothes with body odour is a big turn off. Dress well and be confident in your own skin. Men who are confident are attractive to women, however, there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, don't cross it.
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Make Her Laugh
Women love a man who can make her laugh and cheer her up no matter how crappy her day has been. She is pulled to men who can tickle her funny bones with his sense of humour. So bring out your witty best to impress her, just don't go full slapstick on her, and don't force yourself to be funny, for she will notice it.
Give Her Attention
Okay, so we aren't expecting you to leave all your work and listen to her talking 24x7, but when she is with you, do give her the attention she deserves. Be attentive when she is talking and don't just nod your head. Ask her questions where it is appropriate, but don't pry. Just let her know that she is important and interesting enough for you to listen to what she has to say.
This goes without saying, every girl LOVES to be complimented. She may feel shy when you compliment her or may accept it sportingly, either way she loves it. Tell her she looks good on a particular day, or that she has a pretty smile; but please don't tell her she has got an ass you would like to bang! PLEASE!
Be Good To People She Loves
Never speak ill of the people in her life whom she loves dearly, be it her friends or family. Those people at this point of life are certainly more important to her than you, and she will not hesitate to write you off, if something you said about them seemed offensive to her. Even if you don't like her best friend in particular, now is not the time to let her know it.
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Be Protective But Not Possessive
You being protective of her will show her that she matters to you. Take her side in arguments, stand facing the traffic when you cross the road, etc. Might seem silly, but it makes a difference. Try not to be possessive though; women don't like to be chained down. Don't tell her whom she can talk to and whom she can meet. You are no one to make those decisions for her.
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Give Her Hints But Take It Slow
Most women love to be courted, so do just that. Drop hints here and there that you are into her, and see how she responds. If it's affirmative then let things go at their own pace. Rushing things along and trying to get with her will make you come off as a desperate person. Take it slow, but steady.
Lastly, just be yourself Buddy! Don't fake it till you make it. Be you, as awkward or geeky you may be. No need to pretend to be something that you aren't. After all, you want her to like you, for who you are, right? Or do you want her to like someone you were imitating all along?
Make the best of this advice to make the women of your dreams, that awesome girl fall for you!