A perfect romance, as corny as it sounds, isn’t difficult to create and hold on to. It’s the little things that matter and that’s all you need. Men can be ever so charming during the infatuation period of a relationship and all that can go out the window once personalities surface. It’s not that all guys give up on romance easily, but men are convinced of the false stereotype that all women are naggers and all men are slackers. This is completely untrue. Here are a few tips to be the perfect man you were at the start and spice up your relationship if things have run dry:
Learn to convey your feelings on a regular basis. It is much better than living with hidden resentments and confusion. A transparent relationship is one that will go a long way. Remember to clear every single detail and leave no room for doubt – which is a major relationship downer.
Show your appreciation
You may know you love your woman; you may know she is satisfied with the relationship; but your security may not be enough. Insecurities are rampant in today’s world and a simple reminder of the love you share or a word of appreciation for all she has done will do you no harm.
Surprise her often
You surely remember how you used to woo her at the start of your relationship. You did all you could to make her smile. You need to spring up some surprises to make her feel that she’s not being taken for granted.
Don’t give in to your addictions
Never put your addictions to video games, friends or social networking ahead of her. This will only serve as a hedge that grows into a barricade later on. Try to eliminate your addictions at least in her presence.
Follow these steps and you may be on your way to being the man of her dreams once again. Never let things run dry. Spice things up as soon as you feel there is room for improvement. All in all, be original, love her like you love yourself.