Is She Or Isn't She? 7 Signs Of A Casual Lover
Men looking for monogamous love are always fascinated by that one girl who they feel attracted to. The girl might look like the one to you, but is it really the case? Everyone deserves to get the best and what they desire. If you love someone, you really need to know what they feel about you, granted that you ask properly. In case you are not able to decide if she is serious or not, here are 7 signs of a casual lover.
1. Master Of Last Minute Plans
So you think about going out with her the whole day and make appropriate plans. In contrast, she doesn't seem to be the kind of person who thinks a lot. Worst case, she is a master at telling you about plans at the last moment, so that you never turn up.
2. No Family And Friends For You
If a person means something to someone, they want the world to know. And what better way to announce it than by introducing the person you like to family and friends. In case this isn't happening with you, you might be with the wrong person after all.
3. Follows A No Texting First Policy
Most girls, if they are interested in a guy, will message him to check out what he is up to. If you find that your girl only calls or messages you in times of need, she's probably looking for a saviour and not a relationship. If you're thinking of the long haul with such a girl then think again.
4. You Don't Fit In The Future Scheme Of Things
People, when in love, generally dream of a hunky dory future with their loved one. Girls, especially have a vivid imagination and will openly let the person they love know where they fit in their future. If you haven't heard of any such schemes from her side, or you don't get mentioned, chances are you're not the real deal for them.
5. Too Busy To Play
Have you heard that line "Oh, I'm too busy right now" often lately? If yes, then clearly her priorities have changed. Yes, there are chances she might be caught up in work, but hey, avoiding hanging out with you could be a serious possibility.
6. Those Little Things Aren't Worth Much
Remember that time when you used to laugh on those little things and regret that it doesn't happen anymore. It is an indication that the scenario has changed. She, out of respect, might listen to you but the loss of fun is obvious.
7. Avoids Any Relationship Conversations
The moment you talk about your personal life and about the two of you, she quickly changes the topic, and you are left with stuffed emotions – if this is the case with you, it is safe to say that there is trouble in paradise.
Being led on is a difficult fact to digest, but some day, the truth will reveal itself anyway. So, make sure you pick up these 7 signs of a casual lover and part ways before trouble strikes.