Sex can be a confusing affair, especially during the first few times. You get conscious and think too much before saying or asking for something in return. However, you gotta stop hesitating and pick these sex habits as soon as you can.
Don’t Fake The Fun
You do not have to fake anything. If you’re not enjoying it, let it show. You either ask the guy to put in more efforts or you react exactly how you feel. Your fake orgasm might make him feel good, but are you having sex with him because he wants to feel good? If that is the case, it’s high time you reconsidered your choices.
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There’s nothing wrong with touching yourself. If you do it, own the fact proudly. Don’t keep yourself away from the pleasure just ‘coz you’re a woman. Especially if you’re hesitant in asking your partner to do something in bed, try it while masturbating beforehand.
If he can’t make you orgasm, talk him to it. Tell him that he needs to work on his moves. If you want him to try something new, all you have to do is talk to him about it. You both can later figure out a solution for it.
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Be As Loud As You Want To
If you’re enjoying sex, be as loud as you want to. It’s so much better than faking it. The moans are actually sexy to your partner, so you don’t have anything to be embarrassed about.
Safe Sex Or No Sex
Always, I repeat, always use a condom. As cliché as it sounds, it’s better to be safe than sorry. If he refuses to put on a condom, refuse to sleep with him. It’s always a good idea to use a condom rather than sending a picture of your ingrown to your gynecologist.
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Flick The Lights On, Proudly
You don’t have to be ashamed of how you look down there. It’s not something you put on display to be conscious about. If you don’t want to wax, don’t. You don’t owe him a perfectly groomed vagina every time. If he can deal with his own pubic jungle, he can deal with your little stubble too.
Dump Him If He Refuses To Go Down On You
Why does he think that you are obligated to give him a blow-job but it’s totally casual for him to refuse to go down on you? You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life. Dump his sorry ass.
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Ladies, pick these habits up if you haven’t already and bring out the Samantha Jones in you!