Do you feel uncertain about your love life? Do you feel like you aren’t sure whether things are going according to what you had in mind? When you fall in love it should make you feel complete. When you are in love with someone you should feel wonderful about yourself. If you don’t feel this way, perhaps something isn’t quite right. Of course there are times when there are misunderstandings, but when the grief outweighs the joy then there’s reason for alarm. Here are a few signs that indicate you are walking on eggshells in your love life.
Are you constantly worried about your relationship and its direction? There are times when you feel that invariably your partner may walk out on you in the near future and you wouldn’t be able to do anything about it. If this is the case then it’s imperative to call your relationship off to save you some grief.
If your partner manages to manipulate you into feeling guilty about yourself even for the wrongs he/she might have done, then this should set alarm bells ringing.
Fear of opening up
Do you have the constant fear of sharing certain issues with your partner for fear of outrage? Holding your thoughts back to save the frustration will never save a relationship.
Do you feel suspicious of your partner’s behaviour and he/she feels suspicious about yours? Relationships are built on trust. If trust is missing then the foundation of your relationship is weak. It can come crashing down at any time just like a building with a shaky foundation.
There are times when insecurity creeps in when you or your partner talk to someone attractive. This feeling of insecurity is a relationship killer. If you truly love each other then there is no space for insecurities.
If you recognise these flaws in your relationship then it is apparent that there are some serious issues with your relationship. Work them out or move on. Weigh out the pros and cons of having your partner in your life and see if he/she is right for you. Do not continue doing something that makes you unhappy.