Spicing up your sex life using BDSM

 

Is your sex life monotonous? Do you feel the need to spice things up? Well, there are many ways you can do that! One great way is to introduce BDSM into your bedroom fun! You can make things kinky for you and your partner by introducing this aspect of sex that will make your sex life fiercer. Here is why and how you can spice up your sex life using BDSM.

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Firstly, what exactly is BDSM?

Introduce lingerie into your bedroom fun

Introduce lingerie into your bedroom fun

You may have heard the word being thrown around and most times it is a taboo word. However, after Fifty Shades Of Grey took the world by storm, society has come to accept BDSM more easily.

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BDSM is basically Bondage/Discipline/Submission and Masochism.  This involves sexual and erotic acts with mindsets of domination and surrender.

How and where to start?

BDSM can spice up your sex life

BDSM can spice up your sex life

Firstly, dress up kinky! Introduce some lingerie into your bedroom; it will really make him pay attention at you and only you! No distractions; let it start!

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Then? It’s time to indulge in some novice level BDSM. Don’t obviously jump to extremes straight away, as that would freak any man out! Start with a blindfold, if you like. Use scarves or a tie to blindfold him. You can even bind him to the bed and tease him. You can introduce a belt if you are bold enough and your partner is comfortable with you whipping him. Whatever you do, make sure you know your sexual limits and do not cross boundaries.

What next?

You feel you don’t know enough? Well, you can watch some kinky videos to see how the pros do it! Then see if your partner is comfortable with it and go all out! However, if you know him that well, there is nothing like surprising him. Trust me, he will absolutely love it!

Role playing

Role playing is an increasingly common practice among couples practicing BDSM

Role playing is an increasingly common practice among couples practicing BDSM

Role playing is a common BDSM practice that can add a zing to your sex life. You can play the role of the dominator and he could be the submissive one. Let your creativity run wild!

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Whichever role you play in your bedroom, be confident about your body! You may be the submissive one or the dominating one, let your sexuality soar and your sex life will never be the same!

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