You didn’t miss that smile she just wore, as she quickly typed on her phone, sitting across the table. Mysterious she is, and that’s exactly why you are going bonkers over her. But you just can’t stop thinking what the smile was about. Is she harboring secrets that you ought to know?
Well, here’s the best advice for you. If she feels there are things you needn’t know, maybe it is because you just don’t need to know. Accept it; all women have secrets that you will never get to know. But to save you the curiosity, we tell you things women hide from their men that can calm your nerves, at least for now.
Past relationships lie buried deep in her satchel named ‘Memories’. Do what you may like, but these you’ll never be able to unearth. Just accept that she’s had a life before you happened to her. So quit trying to dig out things from her by asking pestering questions. On second thoughts, did you try being her best friend yet?
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She may never accept these upfront or out loud, but yes, she too harbors insecurities. What if he finds out I’m not naturally as fair? What if he discovers that I can’t cook well enough? Oh God, I can’t tell him about the meeting that I screwed today, he’ll think I’m incompetent and clumsy. Best is to not dive headfirst, but wait till they open up to you.
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The last thing you want to ask them is “What’s going on?” Usually, women talk about their emotions only when it’s a live or die situation. Otherwise they are just closed books, hard to be deciphered. You may try your chance once, but if she is yet put off, let her be. If you are lucky enough, a soft rub on her shoulder, a passionate kiss should do the trick and have her revealing her emotions!
Most women live with such habits that make them cringey perfectionists. She may not want to share these with you as you may term her a psycho with tiring OCD. But that’s just who she is. If she wants the towels on the bath hangers every morning, they better be that way. If cleaning is an everyday ritual that chokes her when skipped, she will follow it religiously for the rest of her life. These habits and many more, she may not share with you. But if you find out about them on your own accord, just accept them!
So, now that you are secretly aware of things that women hide from their men, smile all that you like but do not let your woman know about it. After all, you do not want her to feel embarrassed now, do you?