Flirting is like a language. I hear people say, “He’s a born flirt”; well, I beg to differ. Just like we all learn language over the years, so did ‘He’! The more confident you feel about yourself, the better you will be at flirting. Here we take a look at a few tips that can make you a confident flirt! Just like ‘he’.
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Learn to never put on an exterior. Nothing can turn somebody off more than a fake person. Being pretentious and trying to show off may win you a girl, but trust me, it won’t be the right girl! That’s why, stick to what you’re good at. If you have a sense of humour, use it!
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Being casual and confident speaks more than a hundred words to impress her. Turn your body towards her, cross your arms casually, or relax your shoulders and elbows if you put them in your pockets. Smile and make eye contact, but don’t stare or grin like a maniac. Be friendly, but at the same time make your intentions clear. Friend zoning is too common today! Beware of the dreaded friend zone!
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Compliment her graciously. Make her know what you appreciate. But then again, do not cross that imaginary line. That line is where she’ll know that you are just being cocky.
Nobody likes grumpy-boy. Grumpy-boy will make her feel disinterested to even talk! Smile as wide as you can but make it as genuine as you can!
Beware of awkward silence
Here’s one more dreaded experience for all you flirts out there. The awkward silence moment can seriously ruin things. Make sure to engage in conversation where she wants to tell you things more than you talking.
Learn to wrap it up properly
Don’t go on and on until you’re bored talking.Well, chances are that she’s been bored since quite a while then. Wrap it up smoothly and take her leave.
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Flirting can be quite an easy language once you master it, easy to try and easy to figure out when it’s being done on you as well. Then there are some who are so good at it, they can SING! Well, you’ll get there. Follow these tips to master flirting and be Mr Charming.