So there’s a new cute guy in town and all your girl buddies are getting competitive. We know you’ll want to give your best to have him notice you; so here are a few tips to flirt with that cute guy to gain his special attention. Good luck!
Body language: No guy would approach a girl if she seems tense and has her arms crossed in the ‘unapproachable’ pose. Make sure to relax your mind and keep a cool and casual body language. Get yourself a drink and let your hair down as guys get attracted to girls who are being themselves and not faking it.
Eye contact: Ladies, if you want to get a guy to notice you, eye-contact is really important. I’m not saying you stand in a corner with your girlies and keep staring at the hot guy until he freaks out. Definitely not! Keep your posture casual and lock eyes across the room. Give an easy ‘3-second’ smile and then look away. This way he’ll know you’re comfortable and he may approach you sooner rather than later.
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Avoid eagerness: If he approaches you, don’t jump at the prospect and scare him away. Let him introduce himself; he’s obviously nervous too, so try to break the ice by saying “What?” and let him repeat his name. Then give a cheeky smile and repeat “What?” this way he’ll know you’re open to talk. This may even help him relax a bit.
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Physical contact: ‘Accidently’ touching his arm while in a casual conversation will go a long way. Don’t caress him for 2-3 seconds, it should be a playful one second touch or pat that you may give on a joke he cracked.
Texting: Once you have his number, wait for him to text. If he doesn’t, probably he’ll be wary that you may not like it. Break the ice by sending him a text like “Thanks for buying me a drink” or a simple smiley would do the trick.
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Spontaneous dates: You don’t have to ‘plan’ a date, especially if it’s just the beginning. Call him or text him saying you feel like grabbing a Starbucks on your way to the university. He wouldn’t even know that he actually went on a date with you, and maybe next time he’ll suggest a place to go.
Confidence: All the above mentioned tricks would surely work if you do it with confidence. Guys like confident girls who don’t care if their nail paint matches the bag. With the proper attitude and loads of confidence, you’ll have won over the cute new guy within a week!