Want to know if he loves you or not?


Confusion sometimes seems to be an imperative part of relationships. Maybe you like a close friend of yours, but are not too sure if he also feels likewise for you. You want to ascertain, but don’t know how. Fret not. Here are some tell-tale signs that will help you know if he loves you or not.

1.      No matter what, he makes time for you:

He is on his way to the office and is stuck in a jam. Plus he has got an important presentation at work. But he still finds time to listen to your talks rather than cribbing about his bad luck and frustration. In fact, listening to your not-so-important talks helps him to relieve his stress. Ever encountered such a situation? If yes, that person truly loves you and evidently considers you special.

2.      Your unimportant stuffs are important for him:

When you gift him something, he not only appreciates the gift, but also keeps the gift wrapper carefully with him. You find the wrapper of a chocolate that you gave him long ago carefully tucked into his bag. The tickets of the movies you saw together are also kept next to the chocolate wrapper. If such trivial unimportant things hold value for him only because they remind him of the moments you both spent together, then he certainly loves you a lot.

3.      He is protective towards you:

Whether you’re about to sip a piping hot coffee or sit on a roller coaster ride, he makes sure you don’t get harmed in any way. Like a guiding angel, he is always ready to protect you and look after you which signal his deep, protective love for you.

4.      You spend time with his family on your birthday:

Yes, we do spend time with our friends’ families but the situation is a bit different here. His family members don’t just attend special occasions like your birthday but, knowing what you mean for him, make sure they take part in making your birthday a memorable one.

5.      He keeps your silly pics:

He’s got a whole bunch of pics where you are looking sleepy, droopy or even stoned! He’s even photobombed some of them but he still loves them and is even willing to frame them as finds them precious.

Does he adore your silly pics?

Does he adore your silly pics?

6.      He makes you feel good:

Have you started laughing more often after meeting him? If his overwhelming response to your actions and words, even the trivial ones make you feel important and loved, you should start thinking on taking this friendship a step forward.

7.      He never fails to surprise you:

Does he present a gift to you in the most unexpected situations? Does he love surprising you? We often shower gifts on those who are close to our hearts as it is a sign of attachment and affection and tends to strengthen the bond.

8.      The disappearance of hunger pangs:

Is he so engrossed in your conversations that he needs a conscious reminder to complete his food or coffee? Well, if yes, then he is simply awestruck by you!

Does he forget to sip on his coffee when with you?

Does he forget to sip on his coffee when with you?

9.      He tries to get your attention:

Does he often try to make you care more about him? Does he tell you about his bad experiences so that your affectionate words can soothe him? We often want attention from those whom we love and are sometimes even willing to do unnecessary things to get them care more about us.

10.  You are his priority:

Despite of heavy schedules and full time work load, he manages to take you out for a movie or a dinner. Such actions show that he considers nothing more important than you.

11.  You can always expect a response from him:

Whether it’s a silly joke or a simple “Hi!”, he finds it awesome and sees it as an opportunity to start a conversation with you.

12.  He listens to you:

Does he want your opinion in multiple decisions of his life? From career to wearing the right shirt, does he respect and value your words? Actions are louder than words and there is a great probability that he secretly loves you.


Is he all ears when you talk?

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