Ever had the feeling that everything needs to be perfect when you pop the question? We all want a memory to cling on to for a long time, but we are not sure how to make things special. You may be romantic on an everyday basis, but the pressure of making things perfect may be scaring you from the idea of a proposal. Here are a few tips on how to make your proposal classy, sassy and unique.
Select a nostalgic location
A place where memories spring up such as the first time you both ever met, the first time you kissed, the first time you held her/his hand. Going back to that location for a proposal is a perfect indication to her/him that your relationship has come full circle.
Keep it simple
Don’t make things fake, this is not a contest to impress. Speak like you always do but speak your heart out. Don’t be a Shakespeare all of a sudden. Even a simple ‘Will you marry me’ can do the trick.
Let your eyes do the talking more than your mouth
Stare into her/his eyes with meaning. Make her/him understand how much this means to you without the extra prattle. Sometimes, talking too much can ruin the moment. Let your actions speak louder than words.
Pause, wait, and don’t be hasty
There are times when we get desperate for reaction. For such a major decision which your partner has maybe never contemplated, you may need to give some time to react. Let him/her reply before you can talk again.
All in all, you need to be direct and real. Do what your heart tells you and the proposal will be as graceful as you imagined. Love oozes out of our heart and the need to love conquers all. Let this be in your mind and it will subdue all your jitters. Wait for the perfect moment, plan in advance and do it with complete devotion.