Most guys are bad at keeping secrets, especially from their loved ones. But there are times in a relationship when men feel it is better to keep it under wraps than to disclose it to their partners. Does this necessarily show infidelity? No, most often the reason why men choose to keep these things from women is to protect them and to avoid unnecessarily ruining their mood.
Here are a few secrets that men keep from their women that women should know…
We sometimes check out other women
Now don't be all surprised that we look at women, after all we're only men. Even the most committed women drop flat on the floor at the mention of names like Ryan Gosling and David Beckham! It's involuntary, completely silly and most importantly, IT DOESN'T MATTER. Our obsession with another woman's low necklines and short dresses is as short as David Beckham's Mohawk. So let's just call it a case of simple biology, and leave it at that. At the end of the day all that matters is who we come home to… and that's you!
We were nervous the first time in bed with you too
Yeah, we may seem all calm and composed on the outside, but on the inside we're probably freaking out like a little girl. "She's really pretty, so don't screw up, don't go off too early, stay cool, no weird noises and for goodness sake no making weird faces!" are only some of the things running through our mind! Yup, the first time with a girl can be very unnerving for us too, so please be gentle... at least with our ego.
Sometimes, we're not in the mood either
Contrary to popular belief, men aren't perpetually horny! Yeah, believe it or not, we have our off days too. There are times when we aren't feeling too well, or perhaps had a stressful day at work, or are just dead beat tired. But if you do happen to give us that sexy nudge, while you're looking ravishing as ever, we will probably romance you anyway. So in case you occasionally felt our performance was a bit off at times, now you know why.
Compliments work both ways
A gentleman will often let his woman know that she looks lovely. If she just treated him to an amazing lovemaking session, he'll make sure she knows it. And even though we don't show it, we love the occasional compliment. Oh… something as simple as, "You're the sexiest chap on this planet," or "I love you so much I wanna have your babies" is more than enough to keep us grinning for days on end!
So ladies, we want you to know these 4 secrets that men keep because it's really difficult to keep things from you. And when you do find out, we don't wish for you to take them in the wrong way. And at the end of the day, we still love you!