Behind every successful man, there is a woman. And the thing is that a special woman like her would not stick around with or settle for just any kind of guy. It is a given that if you want to have a woman that special, she should be treated in that special way. So men, hear us out, for the following are some things that you can do to make your girl feel special.
Make Her Feel Beautiful:
Anyone can call his girl beautiful. Now, to make her feel beautiful is something totally different. You have to make her feel like she's the most beautiful girl you've laid your eyes on. And trust us, words alone cannot do it. It's about how you look at her, how you talk to her and even how you touch her. This alone can fuel her self-confidence and make her feel really special. But mind you, don't make it seem superficial.
Although you should have an honest attitude towards everyone, you should definitely be honest towards your girl – being honest with her shows that you respect her enough to be upfront with her. You should choose your words carefully, though. You would not want to hurt her with brutal honesty, but she should know that you would give her an honest answer, no matter what it is about.
Kiss, But Not Just The Lips:
Okay, keep your dirty mind away. Do you remember the last time you kissed your girl on her hand or forehead? These kisses have a certain level of intimacy that goes with them. They make her feel that you want to be close to her, and that you care about her. Another plus point is that you could do these in public as well!
Even if you tell her that she is the best out of all other girls, it would technically be comparing, and it would also imply that there have been, are and would be other girls. The best way to make her feel like the best girl in the world is to make her feel like the only girl that you'll ever be with.
The Little Things:
The smallest of things, like holding the door open, pulling the chair out for her, holding her hand on walks, hugging her randomly, etc. may not seem like a lot; but trust us, they make a huge difference. They make her feel like you are willing to put efforts for her in the smallest of things. These are the basic things that you should be doing to make your girl feel special.
Respect Her Wishes:
You may not always agree with what your girl wants. But it is about respecting her choices and wishes. And yes, respecting her wishes doesn't really mean that you have to sacrifice yours; but come on, you could adjust a little for her, right? Respecting her wishes and choices wouldn't undermine you in any way, and it would make her feel very special.
Begin And End The Day With Her:
You may not be meeting her every day and spending time with her, but a nice good morning text is always good. And yes, a good night text before you sleep off can also do a great job. Such gestures will let her know that she is the first person you think of when you wake up, and the last person you think of before ending the day.
People say that pleasing a girl is not easy, and maybe it is hard at times. But hey, men and women are different that way. The aforementioned gestures are not even a Herculean task, and can make your lover happy too! Now go on, go ahead and make her feel loved!