Women are quite the lovely beings. Trying to woo them is something that the opposite sex has always tried. At times it has been successful, at other times not so much. Sometimes though, things have gone horribly wrong for males. Yes, that's right. The end result, they have been labelled as creeps by friends or colleagues in office. Phew, it's tough! To understand the mind of a woman is no mean feat. But, you got to do it at some stage and this is where my tips come in handy. Ready with you pen and paper? Here are some lessons to approach women the right way.
P.S: Watching too many pickup videos can be injurious to your image.
No Touching Before She Sees You
Yeah, please get it drilled into your head. Approaching her like a Batman, might suit the Batman not you. It might seem like a good option to surprise her by coming from behind and touching her. But, in actuality it is only going to give her the creeps. So, if you thought she'd be swooning because of your touch, think again. A date is not something that you can expect after this act. Go up to her like a decent guy and all will be well.
You Need To Give Her Some Space
Ah, you've heard that plenty of times, haven't you? Relax, I know it's difficult to stay away from the girl you like. But boy, little bit of restraint can help you stay in touch forever. Show her that you are a friendly guy and talk to her with the right kind of distance. She'll respect and like you for it. Becoming overtly alpha will send her running for the hills, literally!
No Serial Killer Looks
Now this will surely scare the s*** out of the lady. Giving her that mean, bouncer dude looks isn't going to go down well with her. The only thing she'll assume after seeing you is that this guy is ready to tear me into pieces at the first opportunity. Not the right first impression, is it?
Body Language Is Essential
Being pleasant while approaching a girl is a great way to ensure that you are a friendly person. Some people though clearly don't believe in this mantra. Balance is the key. A confident man will put a smile on his face and talk in a normal way without the shenanigans (I advise you do the same) while she'll see the trumpets blaring from afar with the so called alpha male. And about shy guys, well the least said the better. Remember, you don't have to be a James Bond to impress girls.
There's Only One Meaning For ‘No'
When you don't understand that a ‘no' actually means a ‘no', you're going to creep out a woman faster than the speed of light. Okay, I'm way off the mark here, but you get my point. Bollywood logic apart, sometimes it might actually be true where a ‘no' is a ‘yes', but then the girl has to be blushing or at least grinning while saying it. A stern look usually should mean that it's time to leave.
So flush out all the machismo and be practical about your dealing with the women. Who knows, the next time around, you might just get lucky.