Explaining Romantic Relationships The Businessman Way
Get this straight – relationships are just like work. You are accountable for every move you make. There's lot of hard work involved and a bad performance means you could be out of it soon. There is good and bad in relationships much like business. So if you are good enough in a business environment then you can be equally good in romantic relationships using the same tricks which apply in a professional setup.
Can anyone tell me, any experiences, especially major ones that have been done without planning? Your most likely answer would be a NO. Because as much as you'd try going with the flow, it is just not enough. A SWOT (strength, weakness, opportunity, threat) analysis is necessary every step of the way just like you need for a business entity.
2. Being At The Right Place
How many times have you heard, a business story starting with the owner going to an entrepreneurial seminar? Just as a good businessman is in place to lap up the right opportunity, so should you be in case you want your relationship to go any further. Meet each other, go out for dates, surprise her once in a while by turning up when she least expects you to.
3. Say No To Desperation
Nobody likes desperate people around them. Whether you are in a business environment or in a relationship, acting hastily or appearing needy can backfire big time. In a dating scenario, desperation displays a lack of confidence and self belief, which are critical factors for any girl to like you. Remember the words of the wise man who said, "The harder you chase the further they run away."
4. The Science Of Chemistry
How you work it out with your clients is what generally defines your success in today's world. People generally stay with people who they like. So build your likeability quotient. By that we don't mean licking client's a**** or just depending on your charm to get the job done. Always aim to build a lasting relationship.
5. Maintain Your Brand Value
In today's environment, brands sell. This is true for both businesses and personal relations. The bigger brand you are, the better are your chances of sailing troubled waters. So keep your brand value high, learn interesting stuff and more importantly let the world know about it. Remember, your reputation must always precede you.
It is clear from the aforementioned ideas that business and relationships are not exactly different as people make it out to be. If followed well, these ideas can lay the foundation for a life full of riches and happiness.