There are a lot of times when men wonder, what was it that they did wrong that she never called back? At times it is the simplest things that can set someone off. There are many bed blunders that men commit and never realize them. Here is how you can stop making such mistakes and just have an amazing time in bed with your partner.
Lack Of Communication
Most of the time men fail to understand that communication is an important part of sex. Talking about each other's likes and dislikes in bed can make the experience more satisfying. If you do not know what your partner wants in bed then you will obviously end up upsetting her. Make eye-contact to see if she is signaling something. Do not be so self-involved that you forget her needs. To have a memorable time, find out more about her desires and be open to communicating.
Being Too Awkward
It is not possible to have a flawless performance in bed. You may come across some elbow-hits on the head, knocking foreheads or pinning her hair to the corner of the bed. Do not wait to apologize for every single awkward moment as it will make her more aware of your awkwardness. Try to improvise and do not let these small glitches get in the way of a passionate love making session. Ease your way out of clumsy situations and no one will ever remember that anything weird had happened.
Passing Lousy Comments
Be aware of what you say during sex. Do not say anything that might seem offensive or derogatory to her. Make her feel good by telling what you like about her in bed. Try to avoid situations where you say something and she doesn't know how to respond. Be your natural self, however, if you feel that you are going overboard, do the damage control with a light-hearted joke or by shifting attention to her likes.
Planning The Moves
Some men tend to plan the whole act and think it will go smooth if they follow a certain technique. It might work a few times, but again, it is not a foolproof thing. Do not get too technical and calculative. Women feel and think about sex very differently. You cannot have a set recipe for perfect sex. Let the moves come to you naturally. Follow your natural instincts and you will have a much more pleasurable experience.
It is time for men to start avoiding these bed blunders in order to have a better sex life. These silly blunders are not very hard to control. You just need to be a little more sensitive about things, and eventually you will start seeing great results.