There are many of us guys out there who are absolute fire when it comes to confidence and persuading people. Even though they exude that kind of charisma, when it comes to talking to girls, their knees get completely weak and they just cannot go ahead with holding a conversation; asking women out is a far-fetched scheme. If you can relate to this, you've come to the right place, buddy! I'm going to tell you how to ask a girl out and get a yes almost every time!
Fix Your Posture
Most of you will plant a mental ‘no' in her head before even opening your mouth because you do not appear confident enough. Do not do things like staring at the ground or fidgeting. Keep your chest high, chin up and exude all the confidence! Also, be comfortable in your space. Don't take too less personal space, as it won't let you appear confident. And yes, don't go all wild with too much of it either.
The Clothes Make You
No, you don't really have to be wearing a spotless white tuxedo. But yes, don't look like you just got back from a free meal at the NGO. Wear something that looks good on you and try to keep it classy. Avoid those wrinkled t-shirts, dirty shoes or any other fashion disasters that may cause things to spiral down. You don't really have to get into really small details, just nail it like the sharp man you are.
When you like that girl at the local café, shoot some glances in her direction. Glances are great for 2-3 seconds each, but don't go staring away; she'll think you're some kind of creep. And yes, if she returns your eye contact with a smile, then it is an indication that her feelings may be mutual towards you! I repeat – MAY be mutual.
Don't Mistake Her Being Nice With Attraction
Just because she's being nice to you and striking up a conversation, does not mean that she's ready to take it up a level higher. If you're still not sure if she likes you or not, just ask her out! If she asks you if you're talking about a date, say "yes" with every piece of confidence you've got. If she says yes, you've nailed it. Even if she says no, you know where you stand.
Keep It Simple And To The Point
Don't try to be over the top. Women dig guys who are comfortable and confident in their own skin. If you go ahead and try being ‘cool', she may think that you're trying too hard to impress her. And yes, when she says she likes men with a sense of humour, do NOT unleash your WhatsApp jokes on her. That's a bigger turnoff than most things. Don't make it a bigger deal than it should be. And yes, if you're afraid of what to say, just walk up to her and be to the point. Tell her that you like her and would like to get together sometime.
Don't Take An Action Movie Fan For A Rom-Com
So, when you finally get a yes for that date, make sure you do your homework before you take her out. Ask her about her interests, hobbies and preferences while you do your ‘small talks'. Once you know what she'd like, surprise her with a perfect outing which fits all her preferences.
So, this was my take on how to ask a girl out and get a yes! Got some golden tips that you'd like to share? Feel free to leave them in the comments below!