Turnoffs For Men That Most Girls Don't Know
We've all been showered with facts about how women are turned off by various things guys do or have. Surprisingly, guys have their list of such things too. Although they may vary from guy to guy, we've compiled a general list of things that are turn offs for men. Well, most men. So, here goes.
Nagging is one of the top turn offs for a guy. Seriously, guys do not like constant complaining. If you constantly complain about anything that he does, he is eventually going to get sick and tired of you and the relationship.
Too Much Talking:
Too much of talking can also be a turn off. Guys do like to listen to you, but if it doesn't stop after a certain point, and you do not let him speak, he will be frustrated. A good idea would be to give him ample amount of opportunities to talk as well.
Don't take this one the wrong way. Men love a possessive woman. But yes, there is a line. He needs his space. At times, he needs time off from the relationship too. A guy feels suffocated if you smother him with more love and attention than he needs.
Calling A Guy By Pet Names In Public:
Guys love it when you behave cutely at times. That would include calling them cute names as well. But yes, when you're out with other people, keep the shona, babu, baby, etc away. Those things would definitely turn your guy off, because he would find them embarrassing.
Yes, men know you can't be chilled out about everything. But cut the unnecessary jealousy out, girl. They understand your insecurities, but not all girls are out to sabotage your relationship with your guy. They have their sense of judgment too; and trust them – if they value the relationship, they won't let anything get close to damaging it.
Living In A Dream Land:
Yes, men know you have your dreams of that perfect lover, your knight in shining armor and all that. Although you may not get your "Mr. Perfect", do not try to change a guy just so that he could fit into the shoes of your "dream guy". Love a man for who he is. Changing a man could have bad, disastrous results at times.
This one goes without saying. It will shock your guy to see that you would even consider discussing this with him. If done too often, the guy would begin to think that either the relationship is completely flawed, or that you still haven't been able to get over your ex.
These are pretty basic, but major turn offs a guy could have. Remember these well, and you'll be thanking us AND yourself for not doing any of the above!